5/9/2017 0 Comments Becoming too self-focusedYou ever felt like someone is so selfish and you wouldn’t help that person even if they asked you. That one person who only thinks about themselves and take everything while giving nothing back. Now we all have people such as this in our lives. 1; they might not even realise what they are doing or 2; they are truly greedy and just want everything for themselves. Don’t get caught up in this bullshit. They won’t reach their full potential, because to reach our greatest goals we need people. If there is no way to avoid these people because you work with them, you need to be straight up with them. Talk to them but remember that their perception/view may be different so don’t get annoyed when they don’t fully understand your side. Over time if they don’t change or if you don’t change other people will slowly drift away. For yourself you need to keep being as giving and helpful to everyone. The more you give to other people the more you will receive back and over time strong relationships will form. These relationships are what make life easy but also live able. Everyone is different and just keep remembering that most people are trying their best so give them time change.
People are always going to be self-focused but if you are willing to make a change in your actions you will see the actions of other change around you. You can’t always be giving to others without giving to yourself. Putting time and energy into helping other people can be exhausting so you need to look after yourself. But the beautiful thing about this system is that other people will see that you are exhausted and they will come help you and it comes back in tenfold. All those people that you spend the time putting effort into will be there for you. But most importantly, before you start judging why someone is being selfish or not consideration others in your opinion. Take a look within yourself because at the end of the day you might actually be the problem. So man up and move on with your life.
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